What is the polite way to make sure our dear friend is resting peacefully and not locked away somewhere?ĭear Mourning, I admit I don’t often get questions about the manners and morals of possible murder. How can his friends be sure he died, so we can come to terms with everything? I have a crazy idea that maybe she found out about the other girl and killed him in a fit of rage. His parents live overseas, and his wife never got along with them as far as we know, no one has contacted them. I checked-she is pregnant and says he’s the father. Also fishy is a rumor that he got one of his female friends pregnant. His college friends are distraught and don’t know what to believe, especially since there is no record of this in any of the area newspapers. She apparently had a closed funeral and told no one, because she said that is how he had wanted it, even though he had many friends and was always outgoing and happy. I then contacted her brother, who had been close to them, and this was the first he’d heard of her husband’s death. She said there was nothing to talk about and asked me not to visit. Since people in the group hadn’t heard from his wife, I was put in charge of contacting her. I found out from mutual friends that the groom recently committed suicide. We three were close in college but less so since we graduated. Two of them got together and married last summer. Please send your questions for publication to (Questions may be edited.)ĭear Prudence, When I was a freshman in college, I had a tight group of friends. Get “Dear Prudence” delivered to your inbox each week click here to sign up.
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